*hugs you a lot* The unintentional and terrible lessons of cruelty in parenting, yeah. We are close in age, and I'm still finding new aspects I have to deal with.

It's a good thing I'm balanced with my roommates, because I definitely am too lenient, and I'm working on that. No matter how BETRAYED the children look when I, too, insist they do what they need to do. *laigh*